Going Beyond Love
“No one is an
This maxim we used to hear is a proof that humans need to love
and be loved.
That is why love is considered as the most important human need
in life. When someone is lacking in love, he or she may feel
irritated and alone.
Depression comes along as an aftermath.
That is how love and depression are interconnected with one
INTERCONNECTION BETWEEN LOVE AND
From the start, since birth, all of us need the unconditional
love of our mother to make us feel that we are important and
exceptional for them. During the pregnancy of a mother, her
love is important to a child in her womb.
Without it the child may undergo trauma, and the so-called
thrive syndrome - that will lead to a depression.
Some people recognize that a child wouldn’t live normally when
love is denied. Thus, lack of love is considered as the
leading factor of being depressed (It is the so-called depression
caused by the history of the individual).
Not only the child on the mother’s womb is affected by the lack
of love. A person who grows up feeling unloved may develop
depression within himself/herself. There comes a time that he
/she will look for love even in “the wrong places”.
If you see yourself feeling this kind of deficiency, you can
start striving for the best ways of coping with depression by
trying the easy strategies as follows:
1. Think of it this
way: There might be people around you that may not always express
their love for you, but they will always be there when something
2. Believe that you
may not hear the acceptance of people around you, but still you are
important for them in such a way that they only understand.
3. You may not
understand the way people reacts about you, they may not show their
love for you the way you want them to. But still, you
can show your love for them in the best way you can. This is
the best way to feel good, to show how much you love and appreciate
people around you!
4. Last, remember
always that you can’t reach that age of yours if no one loves you.
There will always be someone who loves you from the start… you may
not see Him but He loves you. God will always be there for
you no matter what!
For you to conquer your
depression, what you really need is information about it and
street-smart advice from others.
Learn to appreciate yourself the way you are.
Listen to this:
An idea of changing yourself may come on your mind when you are
tired of trying to be loved the way you wanted to, but don’t you
realize that you might be appreciated the way you are and you just
don’t notice because you are asking for more than what the people
around you can give?
Be ready to accept them, and their ability to love you for what
you are, and you will feel the unconditional love you’re longing