Interpreting Body
Language in Flirting
Male and female courtship signals
have been studied, and the basic conclusions are that these signals
are completely unconscious. The more you consciously understand the
signals, the better and more successful you will be when courting
the object of your desire, whether it is the man or woman of your
dreams.
 To master the art of successful flirting, you have
to feel good about yourself first. Be confident. Be yourself,
or else you will look deceitful or desperate.
Flirting can be utilized in just about anything, not
just in attracting the opposite sex, but also in attaining
just about anything you want in your life. This can be
described as good flirting. Good flirting
should be done with a precise understanding of what you really
want, coupled with positive sensations.
I have interviewed a number of
successful men and women in the field of network marketing and
advertising in their 30s and 40s.
Here are their tips
on how you can put good flirting to your advantage:
- 1. Dont worry about whether you are making a
good impression or not. Instead, analyze how you can make the other
person feel good. By doing this, you will get the feedback you are
expecting. Soon you will make the connection.
- 2. Flirting can help you make friends or
impress a client if you make yourself approachable. Put a smile on
your face, as it gives you an aura of being friendly.
- 3. Remember that you cannot attract people just
by sitting or standing like a statue. There will be instances when
you will encounter a person who gets a little bit too close for
comfort feel, or someone who makes you feel you are already
invading privacy. No matter what you do, you would get a so-called
vacuum reaction. Tough one, huh? You can avoid this by using gentle
moves and by calibrating the persons reactions to you. Be aware of
these signals: mouths get larger, the lips swell, eyes widen,
pupils dilate, skin flushes and changes color, muscles around the
mouth move, among others.
- 4. Be persistent. Flirting works best when you
are patient. By being such, you will have room for improvement if
at first you arent getting the results you want. If you fail the
first time, do it again the second time, third time, just keep
trying. Try different approaches until you realize what will really
work best for you. If you were rejected, dont give up. This goes
with the sayings, To err is human and Nobodys
perfect.
- 5. This is probably for me the most interesting
and somehow funniest tip I got: Practice in the mirror, only then
can you make it perfect! This is especially true in meeting friends
and prospects, because flirting may involve unwanted actions and
attention which can put you in the bad light. You may be
spontaneous in your actions, but you cant guard yourself if you are
already overdoing it, and I supposed you dont want to be in that
situation. Try practicing with your close friends and ask for
feedback.
- 6. Make the first move! Opportunities knock
only once, so if you want something or even someone, go for it,
now! Let go of your inhibitions. But remember to apply positive or
good flirting. Who knows if the person you meet at
that moment is your gateway towards the fulfillment of your
dreams.
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